Enigma Solution

The direct use of Force is such a poor Solution to any Problem. It is generally employed only by small Children and Large Nations.  -David Friedman

Blaming others is easy and allows us to deny the reality, that we may be the problem or the one causing the problem. We try to solve problems by changing partners, friends, and team members but rarely ourselves. A sure sign of a problematic person is one who sees negative things in everyone and everything all the time. Are you the problem  or the solution?